How To Know If I'm in Love? How do I know If I'm in Love? How Can I Tell If I'm In Love? Why Do I Love Her So Much? Signs I'm In Love

How To Know If I'm in Love? How do I know If I'm in Love? How Can I Tell If I'm In Love? Why Do I Love Her So Much? Signs I'm In Love

How do you know when it’s love? You think you love her, but you’re just not sure…

Well in my case i always knew that i have this strange feeling for her but just like all other guys who are scared of going out and telling their crush i was scared. I was scared what if i freak her out. What if this ends our friendship, i was afraid of losing her so i kept my mouth shut. I didn't know what this is, one day she texted me you are in love. I was scared out of nowhere she tells me you are in love. Then just like all other guys i google and asked her how’d she know and her replied gave me all my answer. You Just Know and stop fucking google this.

Having strong feelings for someone can make you think you're in love when you're actually in lust or just simply infatuated.

Here's are the two important distinctions between lust and infatuation:

Lust is a physical emotion and reaction to someone else's physical appearance.

It's when you're sexually attracted to a guy and want him only for sex. Lust tends to be short-lived and is more about immediate gratification. If it's just lust, you will have sex in the heat of the moment and only feel physically fulfilled.

Infatuation is an intense feeling.

The intensity of feelings that come with lusting after someone or being infatuated may cause you to think you're in love. When the guy you're lusting after or are infatuated with doesn't feel the same way, disappointment and heartache ensue. As a result, these lustful and infatuation experiences that don't work out, will cause you to believe, "Love is hard, painful and uncertain."

The reality is love isn't any of these things. If you're experiencing love to be hard, painful and uncertain, and asking, "Am I in love?", you are not in love.

Lust and infatuation are usually fleeting and short-lived and don't tend to turn into love. When you are in love, you will have intense feelings for a guy, and be attracted and connected to him on the level of mind, body and soul. Here is my perception and experience of love.

Love is a feeling.

Feelings are the most common way that people learn about and experience love. When it is truly love, you will feel good about yourself when you're with and without her. 

Love is an inside job.

We tend to look for love from someone else, not realizing that love is actually within. Love is about loving yourself first so that you are whole and not looking for someone else to complete you. The quality of your love life is a direct reflection on how much (or little) you care for and love yourself. The more you love yourself, the more you attract a guy who will love you just as much.

Love is a choice.

It's easy to choose love when things are going really well. And when insecurities and fears come up, choosing love is where your greatest growth happens. Love is choosing we over me, unless you're in an abusive relationship.

Love is built on a strong foundation.

Building a strong foundation of love happens by being the best version of you, taking the time to learn about each other, appreciating and accepting each other's qualities, quirks and differences, being there through thick and thin, resolving differences in a respectful manner and letting him be who he is without trying to change him.

If you’re trying to figure out whether it's love you're feeling, here are 21 signs that those three little words might just be in order.

1. No matter what the dating experts, internet, or pick-up artists tell you about ‘a girl needs to prove her value to you,’ you forget every bit of their advice when you’re with her.
2. You do all the gentlemanly things for her, like walking on the outside of the curb, pulling the chair and making sure she sat down comfortably before taking your seat. You do all these things not because they’re good manners, but because you want to.
3. You feel protective of her and it shows when you feel an indescribable need to hold her hand when both of you cross the road.
4. And you don’t let go of her hand after you’ve gotten to the other side.
5. You accompany her on errands and help her out, feeling no shame in doing so. And for some reason you’re very interested in the little things, like the brands and flavors she chooses, and why.
6. You don’t mind holding her things and standing outside dressing rooms. (And you secretly bring them close to your nose because they smell of her perfume.)
7. You like the smell of her perfume; but you also just love the smell of her sweat.
8. When you talk on the phone with her, you lose track of time until one of your phones needs a recharge, in which case, the other promptly calls back and the process repeats.
9. You willingly stay up at night texting when you should be sleeping or preparing for the next day. For some reason, exchanging sweet nothings with her feels much more important than stupid things like sleep and exams.
10. You have a nickname for her which would be inappropriate to speak in front of your common friends, lest they’d make fun of you.
11. You try to dress up the way she likes, just because her compliments make you feel on the top of the world.
12. Because she’s said that one shirt is ‘her favorite,’ and when you wear it, you’re sure the evening is going to be awesome.
13. When going out in groups that include girls, in a setting where she’s not involved, you make it a point to wear something she picked out for you or gave you as a gift, out of everything else you could have worn. Just to tell the other girls in a strange way to stay away.
14. You discover things about yourself that you thought never existed; she brings out the best in you just by her words.
15. She inspires you to be a better man.
16. You can’t bear the thought of her falling for someone else, and promptly push such thoughts out of your mind.
17. You love the way she says certain routine words like “Duh,” and “What..” and secretly thank your stars every time you get to hear them from her lips. You’re totally convinced that no one can say them the way she does.
18. You think she has the sexiest, most feminine voice on the planet.
19. When you’re down sick, or can’t sleep due to a headache, the only words that can put you to sleep are hers. She has to be the last thought on your mind before you drift off.
20. The bottom line is: if you're in love with the right girl, love won't be or feel so hard.
21. You will feel uplifted and loved for your true self. You will know how he feels about you. Your relationship will flow with more ease and when difficulties arise, they will be resolved respectfully.